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Comments on: After Your Kink Betrays You (Or, When Someone Has Taken Advantage Of You) https://loraxofsex.com/2011/01/after-your-kink-betrays-you-or-when-someone-has-taken-advantage-of-you/ Sex Utensil Savant Sun, 11 Oct 2015 06:31:40 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.1.6 By: Elspeth https://loraxofsex.com/2011/01/after-your-kink-betrays-you-or-when-someone-has-taken-advantage-of-you/#comment-7 Fri, 18 Feb 2011 04:28:59 +0000 http://elspethdemina.wordpress.com/?p=30#comment-7 In reply to Graydancer.

Thank you for reading, and for the support. My apologies that WP seemed to think you were spam (bad WP, no pie!) and that it took me this long to remedy this situation.

It may be cliche to say, but “know thyself” is so very important with these things, and I’m trying to keep that to the forefront as much as I can.

]]> By: Graydancer https://loraxofsex.com/2011/01/after-your-kink-betrays-you-or-when-someone-has-taken-advantage-of-you/#comment-6 Tue, 08 Feb 2011 14:18:46 +0000 http://elspethdemina.wordpress.com/?p=30#comment-6 Thank you for sharing this. I just want to add my support in your decision to “take it slow.” I also believe that it’s too important a thing to take lightly or rush into, trusting that when the time is right, it will be worth the wait. If you ever read Mollena’s blog (http://www.mollena.com) you’ll see some evidence of that.

Good to read you,

Gray

]]> By: Elspeth https://loraxofsex.com/2011/01/after-your-kink-betrays-you-or-when-someone-has-taken-advantage-of-you/#comment-5 Mon, 24 Jan 2011 21:30:28 +0000 http://elspethdemina.wordpress.com/?p=30#comment-5 In reply to Velveteen.

Thank you my dear. It’s not been the most fun thing in the world, but it’s a learning experience which I value. In a way, I’m getting a second lease on my life. Feel free to share this with those whom you think it would help. That’s a big part of why I wrote this, and spend so much time trying to make it come out right.

]]> By: Velveteen https://loraxofsex.com/2011/01/after-your-kink-betrays-you-or-when-someone-has-taken-advantage-of-you/#comment-4 Mon, 24 Jan 2011 14:07:38 +0000 http://elspethdemina.wordpress.com/?p=30#comment-4 This is very insightful, and I’m so glad that you’re doing this processing and self care. hugs and hugs I also want certain friends to see this and know that it happens.

]]> By: The nightfox https://loraxofsex.com/2011/01/after-your-kink-betrays-you-or-when-someone-has-taken-advantage-of-you/#comment-3 Mon, 24 Jan 2011 08:08:24 +0000 http://elspethdemina.wordpress.com/?p=30#comment-3 Hi, I’m fairly new to this but I stumbled on your blog and I figured I would give it a look and I was pleasantly surprised. You are extremely eloquent and do more than “merely” put words together to fill up space. I thoroughly enjoyed what you had to say and I’m actually looking forward to reading what else is on your mind.

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